Coffee or Tea

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 CoffeeOrTea

The dating app that works.

Our Process

Slow matching, fast dating.

Take your time, use our app and find the right match then book a quick coffee or tea date to see if the attraction lasts.

Slow matching, fast dating for long term relations

Be loved for everything you are, not just a face.

Our algorithm pairs you with people of similar character, intelligence, interests and more, to help you find your ideal partner with ease.

01

Set parameters.

Select your desired traits from the ones below.

02

Request connection

You have 9 curated profiles to choose from everyday.

03

Start talking.

Either open conversation yourself or get bot-assist. Oh! and no pickup lines.

04

Upgrade relationship.

Go from strangers to friends by completing challenges (Voice call, Video call, etc.).

05

Schedule date.

Pick from our curated cafe locations and meet up for a coffee or tea date.

06

Commit yourself.

Become partners. You will be taken off the match pool so you can remain committed.

07

Second thoughts?

Provide a reason / something for them to improve on to disconnect.

08

Perfect imperfection.

Change variables and look again for the right person. But remember, no one is perfect.

09

Quit application.

Now it's time to leave the nest. Go build your relationship IRL.

  • Gender
  • Age
  • Height
  • Physique
  • Location
  • Income
  • Kids
  • Alcohol
  • Weed
  • Upbringing
  • Languages
  • Body Count
  • Libido
  • Parents
  • Disabilities
  • Interests
  • Education
  • Attachment style
  • Ambition
  • Intelligence
  • Personality
  • Introversion
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Humor
  • Additionally, filter out Narcissists and Psychopaths for peace of mind.

    our features including security for women

    Our Features

    You deserve the best, both in-app and in life.

    We offer an all new suite of tools and services designed to help you find the right partner with ease.

    No Ghosting

    No more ghosting as all closed connections requires a reason and or something for the person to improve.

    No Swiping

    You either connect or ignore profiles. This is the humane way.

    No match overload

    You get 9 perfectly curated matches per day. This can be refreshed every 24 hours.

    No Catfishing

    Using the video prompt, view the person as they would be IRL.

    Feedback

    Get helpful feedback from disconnected users so that you can become a better person during the journey.

    Date-Safe

    Classified until launch. This will ensure your safety during dates especially for at risk users.

    Date Scheduling

    Schedule your cafe dates in app securely.

    Chatroom

    Use the same match parameters to chat with similar people and make friends.

    Chat-Assist

    Ran out of conversation topics? Get our chatbot to assist you.

    No Pickup Lines

    We encourage heart to heart conversations here. Friendly questions work too.

    Variable Parameters

    Are dates not fitting your desires? Change the parameters and match again.

    No Toxicity

    We will do everything we can to ensure that your dating experience is as pleasent as possible.

    Our Purpose

    To help find the long term relationship you desire.

    In a sea of faces, we will help you look for the heart that shines the brightest.

    Mission and vision

    Mission

    To help our users form and foster successful long term relationships.

    Vision

    To become the best dating platform in the world.

    Prototype version offering 6 month premium pack presale

    Our Request

    A little support can make our dreams come true.

    Join our elite group of patrons as we build a path to love itself.

    Tired of being played, ghosted, abandoned, heartbroken, manipulated and being alone?

    Fund our development.

    All it takes is 1 coffee.

    This can be redeemed during full release. Offer for next 10 members only.

    Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much.

    - Helen Keller

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    Summary

    • Slow matching, fast dating.
    • No more swiping, either connect or don't.
    • 9 highly curated matches per day.
    • Bot avoidance and catfish protection.
    • Unique matchmaking process with tons of variables.
    • No more ghosting.
    • Get recommendations and things to improve.
    • Excellent safety and security features.
    • Schedule coffee / tea dates in-app.
    • Chat assist and no more pickup lines.

    Terms and Conditions.