Our Process
Take your time, use our app, find the right match, then book a quick coffee or tea date to see if the spark is real.
Matchmaking Variables
Pair up with people of similar character, intelligence, interests and more.
✦ Filter out Narcissists and Psychopaths for peace of mind.
Our Features
All closed connections require a reason and constructive feedback.
You connect or ignore. The humane approach to modern dating.
9 perfectly curated matches per day, refreshed every 24 hours.
Video prompts let you see people as they truly are IRL.
Get helpful feedback from disconnections so you can grow.
Safety features designed to protect you during in-person meetups.
Schedule café dates securely from within the app.
Meet people with shared values in group chats — make friends too.
Ran out of conversation topics? Our chatbot has your back.
Heart-to-heart conversations only. Genuine questions encouraged.
Not finding the right fit? Adjust your parameters and try again.
We do everything we can to keep your experience positive and safe.
In a sea of faces, we help you find the heart that shines the brightest.
Mission
To help our users form and foster successful long-term relationships.
Vision
To become the world's most trusted dating platform.
FAQ
Coffee or Tea is a dating app built for people who want real, long-term relationships — not endless swiping. You receive 9 curated matches per day, selected across 24+ compatibility variables including character, intelligence, attachment style, and more.
No ghosting, no catfishing, no swiping. All disconnections require constructive feedback. Video prompts verify real identities. And our algorithm goes far beyond looks to find someone who truly fits.
Yes — Coffee or Tea is free to download on Android via Google Play. iOS is currently pending.
Android (Google Play). App Store release is coming soon.
Once you commit to a partner, you're removed from the match pool so you can focus on building your relationship. If things don't work out, you provide feedback, adjust your parameters, and try again.
Every disconnection requires a reason and constructive feedback. You'll always know why a connection ended — and you'll grow from it.